General => Lounge => Topic started by: Tbird232ci on November 07, 2016, 04:39:15 AM
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 07, 2016, 04:39:15 AM
Well, I haven't been around much since probably 2008. Back then, this forum was bustling with new members and a majority of the anchor members were still around. I do recall that a lot of the senior members were getting frustrated with the younger demographic coming into the forums and essentially spamming, but that was just how it was.
So, in that 8 or so years, a lot has happened.
In probably 2009, I had some things happen that made me step back and look at my life. I was, living with my parents, and chained down with car projects. All of my money was going into my cars. I ended up parting out my 5.0 project car, gave away my TC, had a Shelby Charger that I sold, but I still had the Trans Am. Somewhere in 2010, I moved out of my parents house and into my apartment. I lived there for a total of 6 years.
While I lived there, I got a new job as a mechanic for UPS, which ended up being a significant pay raise. I was hired as an apprentice (primarily for cost savings on their part) which had a four year progression to journeymen. I got my CDL, met all of the requirements, and got promoted to journeymen earlier this year.
In the mean time, I picked up another Shelby Charger with the idea to have a fun daily driver while I let my Trans Am sit. It ended up becoming another project. I had tons of parts and broke tons of . I ended up flip/flopping which car was used as a daily depending on which broke. Eventually, the Trans Am broke, and the Shelby Charger broke more. At this point, my co-worker bought the Charger, and I bought my Scion FRS.
As of September of this year, I bought my first house.
As to what brought me back here: I've been contemplating another fox bird. I have a few years until I pull the trigger, but I'm trying to rebuild my knowledge and get back into the community. I have to get my Trans Am road worthy again, fix my fathers Mark 8 as he is giving it to me needing a lot of work, and probably get my Scion paid off before I make any moves.
So those are the big things that have gone on in the past 8ish years. What have I missed?
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Post by: jcassity on November 07, 2016, 08:42:18 AM
well,, you have a ton of threads to catch up on
I did notice you not being around and wondered then saw your postings here lately.
the white coug has sat for 10 years and now is fully chassis restored. i have a thread ongoing about it. you should check out our front core support replacement / mod we did, i am really proud of how it turned out and how we ended up improving its function in life. it will also have a folding rear seat mod & fuel pump access hatch in the trunk. we also did up subframe connectors in a different way than others. We went through every path water takes in the car and improved on area where water will puddel and corrected it. Right now the white coug has a body harness from the fuse box area sticking out about 18'' because i cut it off. the car was CFI 87 year with the basic digi speedo cluster, i am graftng in an 87year 5.0L harness which came from a full digi "star wars" cluster car. today i will be powering up the car using a power pack to verify all ckts function prior to moving forward with interior and engine stuff. we are going 331 mass air with this build. This one is going to my youngest son Chance.
prior to this i got my oldest son an 88bird and he moved out and is doing really great on his own, i am so proud! We did a 5lug swap for him recently which turned out great! we bought this car off a member called Privateer, Scott Branner who's a chopper instructor.
I got a ghia for the wife which she loves, its our next project to paint and go through to restore.
somethings just not right with your red bird missing in your sig though! I betting you will find a nice bird soon.
if not, the walking dead episode had a silver 87/88 bird on the oct 30th .
I started my own company doing design engineering for mech , construction and electrical. I can tell you it is very hard work getting and keeping new work coming in but........ this past few months since june 6th has been the best summer i can ever recall in decades~!. I have time to do what i want when i want and how i want. I am here for my wife and in my own house for more consistent time in a row than i have ever since we were married 25ys ago. last sept i paid off the house which was my birthday prize to myself, costed me 15k but it was worth it. we bought this place in 97 and now in order to keep it i just gotta keep the taxes up to speed.
one good thing about me , i have calmed wayyyyyyyyyy down. something i have been hard pressed to do with my work schedule that fueled 90% of it. To be honest, i dont think i have posted or said anything political in these 8yrs youve been gone !
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: EricCoolCats on November 07, 2016, 02:18:59 PM
Great to see you hanging around here again, Shawn. It's been quiet without you. ;)
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 07, 2016, 04:11:17 PM
jcassity: I've been working on catching up on some of the important threads. It blows my mind when I do a search, and find something I posted in only to see the date being 2006 and to remember posting.
I remember discussing with some other members how you all of a sudden had a personality shift. I've known you for years, and then randomly, your posts started looking like jumbled thoughts that never seemed to tie together. It looks like your thoughts have cleared and your head is back on track with your new company and schedule. Having time with the wife and kids certainly help too. I work nights and my girlfriend works normal human hours, so time together comes at a premium.
I'm glad to see that things have been going well. I vaguely remember you doing a ton of work to your house. I seem to remember pictures with a ton of wood paneling for some reason.
Eric: I don't think I'm the only thing keeping this place quiet. I do want to try to drum up some more activity. So how are all three of those Cougars doing?
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Post by: jcassity on November 07, 2016, 05:29:52 PM
all the cougs doing well. I still type in jumbled thoughts,, or bullet points when i attempting tech talk.
i have a decent parts d when you land a bird again.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Thunder Chicken on November 07, 2016, 05:57:20 PM
I haven't been posting much here lately either, though I do still regularly check in.
I sold my white '88 T-Bird back in 2010 because I became bored with it - it was never really the car I wanted, I'd settled for it (I really wanted a 4-eye Bird or 87-88 Cat) and I could never make myself happy with it, so it went away. I've been casually looking for a decent 4-eye Bird, but hope of ever finding a good one for a good price at a good distance is fading.
So I bought myself another 5.0 Ford, a 2015 Mustang GT. It cost a lot more than a Fox T-Bird, but man, what a car! 30-ish years of automotive evolution have definitely made a difference. Needless to say this car keeps me entertained. I will eventually get stupid with it and start modding, but right now I'm perfectly content with stock. Hell, I've only put 14,000 km on it (not quite 10,000 miles) in two summers.
On the personal front, I sold my house in the country and bought one in the suburban town that I grew up in. I loved the country place but the 70 mile commute over really py back roads was killing me. I have gone through a few jobs: I left the job at the used car place because there were rumours the owner was planning on selling the place. One Friday eveing my service manager called me and said he'd confirmed the rumour and that I should get my tools out of there ASAP. The following morning I went there with my truck and trailer and picked up my tool box. Two days later, on Monday morning, the signs on the building were taken down and replaced and a guy well known for being a hack was the new owner. Crisis averted.
I moved the tool box to a Honda dealership, where I worked and made a hell of a lot of money flat rating Hondas. I was happy there - the cars were easy to work on and the pay was good, but the owners of the place ceded control to a general manager who went to war with the service department - cutting flat rate times, expecting us to work weekends, etc. Things steadily deteriorated until I finally lost it at the general manager after I replaced an engine in a Civic that one of his drinking buddies had left the oil drain plug loose in, and he went into the computer system and changed my tech notes so he could put the engine through warranty. I ended up rage quitting, and went to a small independent shop working on European cars, where I'm still at. It's a bit less money but a lot less stress, plus it's only 4 miles from home (which explains the low mileage on the Mustang).
I was gifted a piece of property from a friend of the family, and this has become a big part of the Big Plan. Some of you saw it on Facebook: I got engaged to my partner of 17 years. We will be getting married in July 2017. It was a long time coming. We are planning on building a year-round cottage on the property. We had hoped to start construction this year but my partner was accepted into nursing school starting next September so we pushed the construction back a bit. Our plan is to build the cottage as cheaply as possible and to borrow no money to do it. I've been gathering materials: windows, wood, etc, and have been working the property to get everything ready. It will be 20X30, built on a concrete slab, with a barn style roof to give us an upstairs. I plan on doing all the work myself, everything from forming and pouring the slab to building the trusses. I'm hoping to have it roof tight by the end of next summer. The grand plan is to have this building finished and use it as a cottage for a decade or so, then sell the house I'm living in now, which will be paid off and hopefully worth a half million or so. We will then retire to the cottage and live the simple country life, debt free.
Like I said, I don't own a FoxBirdCat anymore, but I do still come around and check out the forums. Good to see some old names coming back...
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: EricCoolCats on November 07, 2016, 07:51:36 PM
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Eric: I don't think I'm the only thing keeping this place quiet. I do want to try to drum up some more activity. So how are all three of those Cougars doing?
We're at the bottom of the bell curve, as far as interest in these cars, so it's really no shock that there's been little activity here in the last few years. You've missed a little but not so much drama. That's for Facebook. ;)
The cars and the woman are all doing fine, thanks! Everything is steady as they go.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Haystack on November 07, 2016, 07:58:16 PM
Sometimes I miss tom renzo.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: TurboCoupe50 on November 07, 2016, 08:00:52 PM
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Sometimes I miss tom renzo.
That makes one of us, he was a shiznit from word go...
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Post by: jcassity on November 07, 2016, 08:37:50 PM
Quote from: Haystack;457723
Sometimes I miss tom renzo.
you went there LOL
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Post by: Loaded87IROC on November 07, 2016, 10:05:35 PM
Welcome back!
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 08, 2016, 05:17:59 AM
Quote from: Thunder Chicken;457720
I haven't been posting much here lately either, though I do still regularly check in.
I sold my white '88 T-Bird back in 2010 because I became bored with it - it was never really the car I wanted, I'd settled for it (I really wanted a 4-eye Bird or 87-88 Cat) and I could never make myself happy with it, so it went away. I've been casually looking for a decent 4-eye Bird, but hope of ever finding a good one for a good price at a good distance is fading.
So I bought myself another 5.0 Ford, a 2015 Mustang GT. It cost a lot more than a Fox T-Bird, but man, what a car! 30-ish years of automotive evolution have definitely made a difference. Needless to say this car keeps me entertained. I will eventually get stupid with it and start modding, but right now I'm perfectly content with stock. Hell, I've only put 14,000 km on it (not quite 10,000 miles) in two summers.
On the personal front, I sold my house in the country and bought one in the suburban town that I grew up in. I loved the country place but the 70 mile commute over really py back roads was killing me. I have gone through a few jobs: I left the job at the used car place because there were rumours the owner was planning on selling the place. One Friday eveing my service manager called me and said he'd confirmed the rumour and that I should get my tools out of there ASAP. The following morning I went there with my truck and trailer and picked up my tool box. Two days later, on Monday morning, the signs on the building were taken down and replaced and a guy well known for being a hack was the new owner. Crisis averted.
I moved the tool box to a Honda dealership, where I worked and made a hell of a lot of money flat rating Hondas. I was happy there - the cars were easy to work on and the pay was good, but the owners of the place ceded control to a general manager who went to war with the service department - cutting flat rate times, expecting us to work weekends, etc. Things steadily deteriorated until I finally lost it at the general manager after I replaced an engine in a Civic that one of his drinking buddies had left the oil drain plug loose in, and he went into the computer system and changed my tech notes so he could put the engine through warranty. I ended up rage quitting, and went to a small independent shop working on European cars, where I'm still at. It's a bit less money but a lot less stress, plus it's only 4 miles from home (which explains the low mileage on the Mustang).
I was gifted a piece of property from a friend of the family, and this has become a big part of the Big Plan. Some of you saw it on Facebook: I got engaged to my partner of 17 years. We will be getting married in July 2017. It was a long time coming. We are planning on building a year-round cottage on the property. We had hoped to start construction this year but my partner was accepted into nursing school starting next September so we pushed the construction back a bit. Our plan is to build the cottage as cheaply as possible and to borrow no money to do it. I've been gathering materials: windows, wood, etc, and have been working the property to get everything ready. It will be 20X30, built on a concrete slab, with a barn style roof to give us an upstairs. I plan on doing all the work myself, everything from forming and pouring the slab to building the trusses. I'm hoping to have it roof tight by the end of next summer. The grand plan is to have this building finished and use it as a cottage for a decade or so, then sell the house I'm living in now, which will be paid off and hopefully worth a half million or so. We will then retire to the cottage and live the simple country life, debt free.
Like I said, I don't own a FoxBirdCat anymore, but I do still come around and check out the forums. Good to see some old names coming back...
Sounds like you've come a long way man. Last I remember, you had gotten yourself back into shape, alleviated some back issues and started wrenching again. That in itself was a big step.
One things I've learned as I've gotten older, is that the money doesn't always matter. Working and living in an environment that is healthy for you is worth more than any dollar amount. The money can relieve some stress, but sometimes it's not worth the stress. I'm glad to see you're in a shop that is low stress. I've been around long enough to see that most shops where you make big money typically brings a ton of BS with it.
Congrats on the engagement. I've known you a long time, but I don't really recall you saying much about having anybody in your life. You're good at the smoke and mirrors. The cottage also sounds awesome. I would love to do something similar, but the way the east coast is, there won't be much land to build anything on by the time I can retire. So if you sell your house for half a million, will that be about 7 dollars USD?
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 08, 2016, 05:18:54 AM
Quote from: Haystack;457723
Sometimes I miss tom renzo.
You can find him on other forums. He was on a F-body forum I'm on. I just wish I could remember which one.
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 08, 2016, 03:56:17 PM
You certainly have time, as stated no indicators of these cars skyrocketing in value anytime soon LOL.
I'd like to know why I come across so many more modified Cougars than TBirds. I've *seen* three black 88 XR7's in the Northeast we'll say in the last 3-4 years. Two of which I bought. There is a black GT40'd T5'd 4-eye Tbird on the southern NY state craigslist. I was impressed by that. I wonder what the landscape will look like on the showfields in 10-20 years.
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Post by: TurboCoupe50 on November 08, 2016, 05:58:15 PM
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I wonder what the landscape will look like on the showfields in 10-20 years.
For me probably dark, likely be looking at dirt side of turf...
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Post by: Thunder Chicken on November 08, 2016, 06:01:38 PM
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Sounds like you've come a long way man. Last I remember, you had gotten yourself back into shape, alleviated some back issues and started wrenching again. That in itself was a big step.
One things I've learned as I've gotten older, is that the money doesn't always matter. Working and living in an environment that is healthy for you is worth more than any dollar amount. The money can relieve some stress, but sometimes it's not worth the stress. I'm glad to see you're in a shop that is low stress. I've been around long enough to see that most shops where you make big money typically brings a ton of BS with it.
Congrats on the engagement. I've known you a long time, but I don't really recall you saying much about having anybody in your life. You're good at the smoke and mirrors. The cottage also sounds awesome. I would love to do something similar, but the way the east coast is, there won't be much land to build anything on by the time I can retire. So if you sell your house for half a million, will that be about 7 dollars USD?
Yeah, I lost a bunch of weight and got into shape in preparation for police training, and was actually accepted for RCMP training but in the end decided not to go through with it. I got the acceptance letter and got really excited, then I got a phone call from recruitment telling me that it was at least a two year wait because they blew their budget on the Vancouver 2010 olympics. Shortly after that I heard an ad on the radio from RCMP recruiting saying they were actively looking for "Young aboriginal members", and that just pissed me off. Also, as much as I think I'd have made an awesome cop, I also don't think I'd have been able to deal with the darker side of law enforcement: Car accidents, violent crime scenes (especially against children), substance abuse, etc. It really bothers me just to read about stuff like that. Being there in person and seeing the gore in person would have been too much. When I sold my country house I did not forward my new address to the RCMP, so I don't know whether they ever got back to me to set up a training date or not.
I never really talked about my partner because I was never one to broadcast my personal life (In case you missed it, my partner is a dude - I'm one of those dudes that are into dudes). I never actively hid it, but never advertised it either. People close to me, including family and coworkers knew, but I never went out of my way to tell others because I just didn't think it was important. The shootings in Orlando earlier this year changed that, and for some reason I felt it was important to "come out". A lot of it was defiance - My marrying my partner is kind of a big middle finger to whack-jobs such as the Orlando shooter, but it was also to demonstrate love in a world that desperately needed more of it. I seems silly to write that now, but that was my frame of mind back then.
You are so right about how high stress isn't necessarily worth higher money. Working at a flat rate shop was super high stress - even though I was one of the top producing techs in the shop I still always wanted more (couldn't help myself) and absolutely dreaded getting the big warranty jobs because I knew they paid horribly (for example, replacing the piston rings in a V6 Accord pays around 6.5 hours!). I would stress out bigtime over things like that, even though I'd still end up with 125+ hours in a two week period. Where I'm at now I don't mind the big jobs at all, in fact I rather enjoy tearing into a BMW engine, or setting up the carbs in an old Volvo, or chasing an electrical problem in an old Alfa Romeo. It's much more interesting than maintenance and brake jobs - the gravy jobs at dealerships that pay well but are repetitive and boring.
If the Canada-US exchange rate stays the same, that $500k would be worth about $600K US. Unfortunately the buying power of that money will likely have greatly diminished by then, but I think we'll be OK living debt free with our retirement savings...
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 08, 2016, 08:05:42 PM
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For me probably dark, likely be looking at dirt side of turf...
:( Please don't say that...I'm sorry. I was hoping 10 years ago that I still wouldn't be the only one in town. So I keep setting the goalpost further out...
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Post by: deathbypsi on November 08, 2016, 10:32:33 PM
The only real thing you missed was me joining and building some cool ! lol
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Post by: Haystack on November 08, 2016, 11:27:25 PM
I swapped a sn-95 3.8 t-5 behind my old 87 tbird and beat the living out of it. Wore through a set of 275/60's with an open ended diff and 2.73 gears. That was sort of fun.
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Post by: Beau on November 09, 2016, 12:37:37 AM
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That makes one of us, he was a shiznit from word go...
You shagin' aye right. I never had a problem with superior/greater knowledge, but when you add arrogance and the feeling of "I'm better than you" to the source...he was nigh insufferable. Good f*ckin' riddance.
As for me and what I've done/been doing since 2008....3 kids, married (since 2010) Mustangs..'84, '87, still live on my grandparent's farmstead that I inherited....just trying to keep on keepin' on. Lost a couple of really close friends not so long ago, other than that, life is good, no complaints.
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Post by: V8Demon on November 09, 2016, 02:22:16 AM
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Sometimes I miss tom renzo.
I'll be more blunt than the other Tom; Renzo was a cancer.
Missed you Shawn ;). I'm still an asshole, lol!
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Post by: Ifixyawata on November 09, 2016, 06:32:35 AM
Holy shiznitballs, what is this a class reunion? I'll add my 2 cents a little while later this morning once I get home.
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 09, 2016, 09:55:26 AM
Yaaayy!!! :)
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Post by: thunderjet302 on November 09, 2016, 03:29:46 PM
Since 2008? Well:
2008: Graduated undergrad, bought house. 2011: Started masters degree, bought brand new 2011 Focus. 2012: Finished masters degree, bought brand new 2012 Mustang. 2014: Got married. 2015: Started house renovations. 2016: Finished house renovations, got promotion to director of my own building, bought brand new 2017 Accord EX-L V6
Oh and I still have the same Thunderbird I've had since 2002......
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 10, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: ZondaC12;457736
You certainly have time, as stated no indicators of these cars skyrocketing in value anytime soon LOL.
I'd like to know why I come across so many more modified Cougars than TBirds. I've *seen* three black 88 XR7's in the Northeast we'll say in the last 3-4 years. Two of which I bought. There is a black GT40'd T5'd 4-eye Tbird on the southern NY state craigslist. I was impressed by that. I wonder what the landscape will look like on the showfields in 10-20 years.
Believe it or not, the value is actually going up and up. I never paid more than 700 bucks for any one of my Thunderbirds. Now it's hard to touch one for under 2k, and TC prices are through the roof. As far as show fields, you may see some old folks with the low mile TC's that are popping up, but other than that, not much. These cars seemed to be a gateway for younguns to get into cars they really wanted.
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For me probably dark, likely be looking at dirt side of turf...
I'll send you some post cards via ouija board. Maybe we can get a digital one so you can still post.
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I never really talked about my partner because I was never one to broadcast my personal life (In case you missed it, my partner is a dude - I'm one of those dudes that are into dudes). I never actively hid it, but never advertised it either. People close to me, including family and coworkers knew, but I never went out of my way to tell others because I just didn't think it was important. The shootings in Orlando earlier this year changed that, and for some reason I felt it was important to "come out". A lot of it was defiance - My marrying my partner is kind of a big middle finger to whack-jobs such as the Orlando shooter, but it was also to demonstrate love in a world that desperately needed more of it. I seems silly to write that now, but that was my frame of mind back then.
It takes a lot of courage to come out. I've had a handful of friends that came out, only to receive a lot of hate from friends and family. On the other hand, the friends that stuck by have been lifetime friends at this point. It does show who your true friends and family are.
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You are so right about how high stress isn't necessarily worth higher money. Working at a flat rate shop was super high stress - even though I was one of the top producing techs in the shop I still always wanted more (couldn't help myself) and absolutely dreaded getting the big warranty jobs because I knew they paid horribly (for example, replacing the piston rings in a V6 Accord pays around 6.5 hours!). I would stress out bigtime over things like that, even though I'd still end up with 125+ hours in a two week period. Where I'm at now I don't mind the big jobs at all, in fact I rather enjoy tearing into a BMW engine, or setting up the carbs in an old Volvo, or chasing an electrical problem in an old Alfa Romeo. It's much more interesting than maintenance and brake jobs - the gravy jobs at dealerships that pay well but are repetitive and boring.
The repetition of fleet work does get aggravating. I have about 40 trucks in my fleet, and most of them have all the same engine, transmission, brakes and other . It gets boring and monotonous fast. It also will make you lazy. The pay and the benefits are great, but the paperwork and the pace can really take its toll on you.
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If the Canada-US exchange rate stays the same, that $500k would be worth about $600K US. Unfortunately the buying power of that money will likely have greatly diminished by then, but I think we'll be OK living debt free with our retirement savings...
Ohhh, so it'll be worth about 13 dollars USD :mullet:
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The only real thing you missed was me joining and building some cool ! lol
I saw you around other forums before you joined up here. I've seen you around. :burnout:
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As for me and what I've done/been doing since 2008....3 kids, married (since 2010) Mustangs..'84, '87, still live on my grandparent's farmstead that I inherited....just trying to keep on keepin' on. Lost a couple of really close friends not so long ago, other than that, life is good, no complaints.
Man, sounds like your pull-out game was weak! It seems like a lot of us are getting to that age where friends start dropping off. It's almost surreal when it first starts happening. Glad life is good for you brother.
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Missed you Shawn ;). I'm still an asshole, lol!
Some things will never change.
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Holy shiznitballs, what is this a class reunion? I'll add my 2 cents a little while later this morning once I get home.
Look, he already forgot to check back in!
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Since 2008? Well:
2008: Graduated undergrad, bought house. 2011: Started masters degree, bought brand new 2011 Focus. 2012: Finished masters degree, bought brand new 2012 Mustang. 2014: Got married. 2015: Started house renovations. 2016: Finished house renovations, got promotion to director of my own building, bought brand new 2017 Accord EX-L V6
Oh and I still have the same Thunderbird I've had since 2002......
Three year gap between undergrad and your masters? You beat the statistics there. Most people who take a break end up never going back. What did you get your degree in?
I'm really glad that it seems that everyone here is actually doing pretty well for themselves. It's pretty refreshing actually.
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 11, 2016, 09:21:25 AM
True, I've seen several TC's generate plenty of interest on BringATrailer and asking prices are definitely shocking. You're right, by and large there are few nice ones in beater car price territory. I'm sure there will be some sort of coattail effect. What I should have elaborated on, was that I wonder how many will remain bone stock and how many people will effectively resto-mod. They're so much more "complete" with even just another 100 HP or so.
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Post by: Thunder Chicken on November 11, 2016, 11:33:57 AM
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It takes a lot of courage to come out. I've had a handful of friends that came out, only to receive a lot of hate from friends and family. On the other hand, the friends that stuck by have been lifetime friends at this point. It does show who your true friends and family are.
When you've been living with the same "roommate" for 17 years it really isn't all that hard. I've been out to people I know personally for years. I don't advertise it though, and kept it quiet online. My "coming out" Facebook post, which was also my engagement announcement, actually went over very well. It was the single most popular thing I had ever posted on Facebook, and the response was 100% positive. I'm fairly certain nobody unfriended me (and if they did I obviously don't miss them), and the post got well over 300 likes, which is quite something considering I would usually get excited if a post I made got double digit likes. I even used it as an example to my partner, who was deeply depressed by the Orlando shootings.
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Post by: Beau on November 11, 2016, 03:42:53 PM
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Man, sounds like your pull-out game was weak! It seems like a lot of us are getting to that age where friends start dropping off. It's almost surreal when it first starts happening. Glad life is good for you brother.
Cole is the oldest, Nicole and I met January of 2008, we'd both been through some shiznit and bad partners/spouses, so we really hit it off fast. At that point, I was sure I couldn't father a child, but, well, fate said that was a lie LOL, and Cole was born November of '08. When he was still only a few months old, we decided that we'd have another....since Cole was such a great baby. Annika was born February 2010, and to date, the only planned brat.
In January 2014, Nicole and I made a trip to West by-god Virginia to help her sister and her then-boyfriend. We also met Scott and his wife and one of their boys....the first night we were there though, Nicole got horribly sick at Ruby Tuesday. It ended up screwing up her system a bit, and 9 months later here comes Liam.
She says if she gets preggers one more time she's gonna cut my rod off and shoot me with my rifle LOL.
(I think she's more than half serious....all the knives AND the guns are locked up now...) LOL.....
Nah, I truly have no complaints...all my old friends are all drunks, drug addicts, or are dead. My co workers are probably the closest thing to good friends, and that's not a bad thing as I don't make friends easily. But enough about me...I've said far too much already.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Ifixyawata on November 13, 2016, 01:47:31 PM
Hah! I did forget to check back in. I think the last thing I really posted was that I was getting married, we got married, we went to the last CJ after that and I think that's where it left off.
My T-bird still sits in the garage at my mom's house, new suspension bits all under it but badly in need of paint, etc. I'll get to it someday. I still have all the EFI parts I bought from vinnietbird! Otherwise on the car front I put about 200K miles on the '05 Neon I bought new, changed the timing belt at 180k and overheated it to death at 202k. The car did well considering I never took shiznit for care of it. Ironically it died on the way home from my in-laws in NC where I picked up a nice '04 Mercury Mountaineer as we needed a bigger family car and AWD/4WD. After we got home I scoured CL around where my in-laws live (rust-free, baby!) and found a sweet yellow '01 Ford Focus. Sent my FIL to go look at it, he said it was good and picked it up for me. Got it home last July and I've been loving being back in Fords since then.
I worked at a body shop for about a year, then got fired because someone else was screwing around in a customer's car. Ended up unemployed for about a year and a half and then got the job I have now. Working at a circuit board manufacturer whose primary customers are defense and aerospace contractors, etc. Started out as an operators, then after 3 years I got promoted to 2nd shift supervisor and about a year and a half ago I made the switch to 3rd shift. It was a change for the better but life is a little harder now. This is the longest I've had a job and probably the 'best' job I've had. I wasn't even going to apply because the 'requirements' were way beyond my experience. But, my wife, like she tends to do, pushed me to do it anyway and I'm so glad she did.
In between that time, my wife and I had our son (Sept 2013), his name is Fox and he just turned 3 at the end of September. It was pretty unexpected, my wife and I were together for about 5 years and it had never happened. Granted, we never really tried to have children but we never took preventative measures either. You can imagine the surprise when my wife told me. Now we're expecting a 2nd and my wife is due in February '17. This one will be a girl, so I guess you could say I'm going to up the difficulty on this one... or so I'm told.
It's good to read about everyone else and see what folks have been up to. I'm glad a lot of the 'old gang' is still here.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: jcassity on November 13, 2016, 09:36:32 PM
Quote from: Ifixyawata;457859
This is the longest I've had a job and probably the 'best' job I've had. .
times they are about to get much better for you and the heartland of the USA.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 14, 2016, 04:36:25 AM
Quote from: ThunderbirdSport302;457821
Cole is the oldest, Nicole and I met January of 2008, we'd both been through some shiznit and bad partners/spouses, so we really hit it off fast. At that point, I was sure I couldn't father a child, but, well, fate said that was a lie LOL, and Cole was born November of '08. When he was still only a few months old, we decided that we'd have another....since Cole was such a great baby. Annika was born February 2010, and to date, the only planned brat.
In January 2014, Nicole and I made a trip to West by-god Virginia to help her sister and her then-boyfriend. We also met Scott and his wife and one of their boys....the first night we were there though, Nicole got horribly sick at Ruby Tuesday. It ended up screwing up her system a bit, and 9 months later here comes Liam.
She says if she gets preggers one more time she's gonna cut my rod off and shoot me with my rifle LOL.
(I think she's more than half serious....all the knives AND the guns are locked up now...) LOL.....
Nah, I truly have no complaints...all my old friends are all drunks, drug addicts, or are dead. My co workers are probably the closest thing to good friends, and that's not a bad thing as I don't make friends easily. But enough about me...I've said far too much already.
So she would cut off your rod and shoot you? Talk about robbing of your manhood, making you wish you were dead, and then fulfilling that wish all in one shot! It sounds as if she isn't playing around either.
One thing I've learned, is that you are only as good as the company you keep. I had a lot of friends that were the same way. Drugs and alcohol. Also had a lot of friends that lived at home and spent all of their money on their cars. Ditching those friends was a positive change for me. Sounds like you're better off now, especially with a wife and family.
Quote from: Ifixyawata;457859
Hah! I did forget to check back in. I think the last thing I really posted was that I was getting married, we got married, we went to the last CJ after that and I think that's where it left off.
My T-bird still sits in the garage at my mom's house, new suspension bits all under it but badly in need of paint, etc. I'll get to it someday. I still have all the EFI parts I bought from vinnietbird! Otherwise on the car front I put about 200K miles on the '05 Neon I bought new, changed the timing belt at 180k and overheated it to death at 202k. The car did well considering I never took shiznit for care of it. Ironically it died on the way home from my in-laws in NC where I picked up a nice '04 Mercury Mountaineer as we needed a bigger family car and AWD/4WD. After we got home I scoured CL around where my in-laws live (rust-free, baby!) and found a sweet yellow '01 Ford Focus. Sent my FIL to go look at it, he said it was good and picked it up for me. Got it home last July and I've been loving being back in Fords since then.
I worked at a body shop for about a year, then got fired because someone else was screwing around in a customer's car. Ended up unemployed for about a year and a half and then got the job I have now. Working at a circuit board manufacturer whose primary customers are defense and aerospace contractors, etc. Started out as an operators, then after 3 years I got promoted to 2nd shift supervisor and about a year and a half ago I made the switch to 3rd shift. It was a change for the better but life is a little harder now. This is the longest I've had a job and probably the 'best' job I've had. I wasn't even going to apply because the 'requirements' were way beyond my experience. But, my wife, like she tends to do, pushed me to do it anyway and I'm so glad she did.
In between that time, my wife and I had our son (Sept 2013), his name is Fox and he just turned 3 at the end of September. It was pretty unexpected, my wife and I were together for about 5 years and it had never happened. Granted, we never really tried to have children but we never took preventative measures either. You can imagine the surprise when my wife told me. Now we're expecting a 2nd and my wife is due in February '17. This one will be a girl, so I guess you could say I'm going to up the difficulty on this one... or so I'm told.
It's good to read about everyone else and see what folks have been up to. I'm glad a lot of the 'old gang' is still here.
I do remember you and your wife coming through CJ. It's amazing how this is jogging so many memories. I also remember your Neon, and you being pissed at the adaptive ECM when you put the intake on it. Also remember the burnout you did when you left CJ. Didn't you put the old school Pizza wheels on that thing?
You still happen to have the old 600 sitting in the garage? I know it's been forever since I was out there, but I do remember that 600 and remember wanting it back then.
The 3rd shift boogie is rough. I currently work 3rd shift, and I probably will for the next 20 years. The money is great, but it can be rough on the social and love life.
I've seen some of the Facebook pictures of your boy, and he looks just like you. Congrats on the girl. Most of my buddies who have sons and daughters tell me that having a girl isn't more difficult, it's just different.
Quote from: jcassity;457863
times they are about to get much better for you and the heartland of the USA.
We can only wait and see. I'm optimistic, but still apprehensive.
I'm really glad I've come back here. I've known a lot of you since we were kids, and I'm happy to see most of us have actually grown up and gotten our shiznit together. I'm glad this community is still a bit of a community and glad to see some of you guys randomly check the forums.
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Post by: Ifixyawata on November 14, 2016, 06:04:34 AM
Quote from: Tbird232ci;457867
I do remember you and your wife coming through CJ. It's amazing how this is jogging so many memories. I also remember your Neon, and you being pissed at the adaptive ECM when you put the intake on it. Also remember the burnout you did when you left CJ. Didn't you put the old school Pizza wheels on that thing?
You still happen to have the old 600 sitting in the garage? I know it's been forever since I was out there, but I do remember that 600 and remember wanting it back then.
I had one pizza wheel for a while, I think, or I at least tried it on. The car could do a sweet burnout when I beat the shiznit out of it.
The 600 is gone-zo, too much rust, in too many pieces and a salvage title. Too bad because it, supposedly only had 17k on it.
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Post by: EricCoolCats on November 14, 2016, 03:42:21 PM
Suppose it's my turn already...I'm a little older, the facial hair is a little more grey, but I'm still hairy as ever! LOL
Let's see...in the past 8 years:
- Still have the '84 and the '86, no major updates to either of them - Paid off the house - New daily driver (Lincoln MKX) - Same job - Still with Woman™
I guess 'steady as she goes' for me. Sorry so boring!
Unfortunately I am at the point in my life where I'm gonna see some more of the closest people to me start to pass on. It's inevitable but still a harsh reality. So I'm focused more on spending time with everyone now, and also getting my own affairs more in order. Most things were taken care of a little over a year ago before I had heart surgery, but there are still a few things to button up. Once that happens...I'm ready to go whenever I'm called. Anything I got past last fall are bonus years in my book. So...I find most of my "spare" time taken up by other things and people, not so much car-related anymore.
The house has been getting slow but steady updates over the years (shingles, porch awning replaced with a wood roof, garage reorganization, basp00get finishing/walls, cement patio in back). I'm down to just the furnace and a/c unit, as far as major expenses yet to arise, but I'm ready for them if something happens. Right now I'm working on the shelves in the basp00get for storage, closet storage, new carpet for the basp00get steps, and new bookshelves to finally organize all my books. Hoping to get a basp00get drop ceiling in there also. Then next year, probably a storage shed and closing in the back porch. It's always something but I love my little house, it's a peaceful place and it makes me happy. And did I mention it's paid for? ;)
I'm enjoying everyone's candid answers, it's really great to see everyone's lives coming together. Glad you're all still here!
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Post by: thunderjet302 on November 14, 2016, 05:32:42 PM
Quote from: Tbird232ci;457792
Three year gap between undergrad and your masters? You beat the statistics there. Most people who take a break end up never going back. What did you get your degree in?
Masters in library and information science. I waited a couple years before going back to save some $$$. Plus I was a bit tired of school. My employer helped to defer some of the cost of the degree, which helped my decision to go back.
Quote from: jcassity;457863
times they are about to get much better for you and the heartland of the USA.
Not to get political but I'll believe it when I see it ;)
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: V8Demon on November 15, 2016, 03:16:42 AM
Ok.... I'll sum up 8 years....
Had my second daughter. My brother, who lives about 70 miles away, has never seen her. Im not sure he know she exists....what can I say, I tried to keep the communication going, but...
Bought a Dodge Nitro R/T.
Wife went back to work for NYC BOE.
Her 2000 Cougar bit the dust.
Bought a 2012 Focus to replace it.
Got bit by 135 lb Rottweiler at work and was forced to put it down. My hand still cramps in about 2 minutes when writing.
Sent the wife and kids to Hawaii and couldn't go due to not being able to get off from work for it.
Did a shiznit ton of work to the Cougar and Mustang, almost all of which is documented here.
Turned 40.
Quit smoking. I think this time for good. Had a 3 year stint once before. This one feels more promising though. Been 4 months.
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Post by: MexCougar on November 16, 2016, 03:18:11 PM
Nice to hear that everyone its still doing fairly well. This is still the only forum i came back every now an then. It looks like some of those old school meetings.
Never read an entire post from that Renzo guy, only knew it was a PITA. It was like our old friend 351Bird (Ben) or something ?
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 16, 2016, 03:29:20 PM
Quote from: V8Demon;457903
Got bit by 135 lb Rottweiler at work and was forced to put it down. My hand still cramps in about 2 minutes when writing
How often does that happen? They are animals, after all and I've always wondered what the odds are that one could become "renegade".
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Post by: Haystack on November 16, 2016, 03:44:47 PM
I dont often post personal stuff here, maybe I should actually say whats been going on with me. Might shed a bit of light on my moods and things for the past few years.
Me and the wife split hust before my second son was born. Been just over five years now. My ex had an obsession with shoppping and dug herself about $20k in credit card debt without my knowledge. I got sent 2500 miles from home for work in Pittsburgh and came home to an empty house with an eviction notice on the door.
I haven't spoken to my ex since then. She told her parent's I beat her up and ran up all the credit cards while I was gone, the re mortgaged their house to pay them off and helped her to file protective order against me. I am not a violent person and actually came from an abusive home. My mother abused prescription drugs, went crazy and left when I was 14 years old. I feel very strongly about violence and have never hurt anyone because of it.
Long story short, my ex wouldnt let me see my kids at all after she left, and I spent 3 years dealing with all the court stuff. Hired a lawyer which cost me $7k and finally settled outside of court for state minimums.
I was in a very, very dark place for about two years. While I was doing construction, I was a forman in charge of as many as 50 people and was always working after my ex left. I dug myself into work and just shut down emotionally while I couldnt see my kids. I kept getting migraines that would last for days straight. I got really sick and lost a ton of weight. I am 6'5, I went from 240lbs down to 157lbs during that time.
Once my divorce got finallized and I was able to see my kids again, I started to get much better and I am in a much better place now. I moved back in with my dad and things started to look up. Ive given up on construction at least for now, and am just trying to enjoy life with my kids whenever I can. Right now I am working part time delivering pizza because it's easy money and one of the few jobs I can easily work now that we live about 50 miles from any major cities. Financially I crippled due to a low income after years of making okay money. When I settled outside of court I got saddled with a ton of bills and past due child support putting me somewhere around $16k in debt which Ive slowly paid down to about $12k.
I will catch up on it, and I am probably going to go to college and just take some general classes once I am all caught up. I finally got my ged in november 2014 after my oldest started asking me about my school grades and I had to tell him that I dropped out of school and never finished.
Next month I start a new local job for okay money working 3 12hr days a week. The plan is to keep dominos part time and use the entire income of my second job to pay everything off.
Overall, this forum has helped me get through a ton of things. I feel more like this place is family. Even though ive never met anyone from the forum, ive spent a ton of time here since I was 16 and got my first cougar. I turn 30 next year and am looking forwards to a new and better life.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: CougarGal on November 16, 2016, 03:53:04 PM
Quote from: Haystack;457959
I dont often post personal stuff here, maybe I should actually say whats been going on with me. Might shed a bit of light on my moods and things for the past few years.
Long time no see!! Sorry to hear about the troubles but, hopefully, life will soon smooth out for you!! Sending my best wishes that it will be so!!
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Post by: V8Demon on November 16, 2016, 04:20:00 PM
Quote from: ZondaC12;457958
How often does that happen? They are animals, after all and I've always wondered what the odds are that one could become "renegade".
I was the THIRD person he bit within a month..... The one before me was an elderly woman whom he put in the hospital for weeks..... It wasn't my first rodeo with him.
To find out how often it happens you could always contact your local SPCA. Most munilities require them to be notified in such instances.
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Beau on November 16, 2016, 07:23:50 PM
A lot of us go through some bad shiznit, it's not what we go through that makes us, but how we bounce back once the dust clears.
I come from an abusive parental unit (and still have problems with them to this day), both parents were/are alcoholics, as well as most of the family on my mom's side. I too had drinking issues several times in the past. It's only been in the 8 and half years or so that I've truly not wished I'd squeezed that trigger hat night in 2005 when I was at my absolute lowest. I mean I didn't give half a if I made it to the end of the month. My brother had just gotten killed, I'd been drinking as heavily as I could and still function, my marriage was coming apart, and I was deeply and truly unhappy. Some of you know a bit about it, some not so much. I abused prescription drugs, while drinking. After halloween night though I put whatever I could into my system.
I can look back at some my posts here from those times and let me tell you I put on a good public face despite how shaged up I was then.
Nicole (second wife, mother of our 3 rugrats) has laid the law out on me a couple of times. She's my best friend and savior....if she wasn't as strong as she is, I wouldn't be alive today. Everything we've got she's had at least 50% input on, and usually more.
She came into my life in 2008 just as I was starting to slip back down in drugs and booze, and while we had a rough few months, by November of 2008 things were perfect.
I still miss my lost friends and loved ones but I gotta keep pushin' ahead for the kids, for Nicole, and those close people I once knew who didn't get lucky enough to survive some truly horrible shiznit. I shouldn't even shaging be alive, but here I sit, tears in my eyes and grateful for second, third chances. Nothing is promised, live free, and tell the special people just what they mean to you because for us all, the clock is ticking.
That said, it's good to know that there are people who didn't go through a pile of shiznit and torment to understand that life can be good.
My only regret is wasting 15 years to chemicals and an uncaring female. And not sacking up and walking away from her ass long before I did. (goes back to the whole abuse thing....she was pretty shaging good at it)
Anyway, I didn't mean this to come off as a pity me post, believe me, I've had enough pity and I ain't wanting more. Just be glad I made it through. Life is good. Go live it.
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Post by: jcassity on November 16, 2016, 09:45:52 PM
Quote from: ThunderbirdSport302;457973
AI can look back at some my posts here from those times and let me tell you I put on a good public face despite how shaged up I was then.
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well, your good people in my book!
Title: So lets catch up
Post by: Tbird232ci on November 20, 2016, 04:34:54 AM
Quote from: EricCoolCats;457885
Suppose it's my turn already...I'm a little older, the facial hair is a little more grey, but I'm still hairy as ever! LOL
Let's see...in the past 8 years:
- Still have the '84 and the '86, no major updates to either of them - Paid off the house - New daily driver (Lincoln MKX) - Same job - Still with Woman™
I guess 'steady as she goes' for me. Sorry so boring!
Unfortunately I am at the point in my life where I'm gonna see some more of the closest people to me start to pass on. It's inevitable but still a harsh reality. So I'm focused more on spending time with everyone now, and also getting my own affairs more in order. Most things were taken care of a little over a year ago before I had heart surgery, but there are still a few things to button up. Once that happens...I'm ready to go whenever I'm called. Anything I got past last fall are bonus years in my book. So...I find most of my "spare" time taken up by other things and people, not so much car-related anymore.
The house has been getting slow but steady updates over the years (shingles, porch awning replaced with a wood roof, garage reorganization, basp00get finishing/walls, cement patio in back). I'm down to just the furnace and a/c unit, as far as major expenses yet to arise, but I'm ready for them if something happens. Right now I'm working on the shelves in the basp00get for storage, closet storage, new carpet for the basp00get steps, and new bookshelves to finally organize all my books. Hoping to get a basp00get drop ceiling in there also. Then next year, probably a storage shed and closing in the back porch. It's always something but I love my little house, it's a peaceful place and it makes me happy. And did I mention it's paid for? ;)
I'm enjoying everyone's candid answers, it's really great to see everyone's lives coming together. Glad you're all still here!
It really is a harsh reality. It's really sobering. We spend so much time wrapped up in the grind that it takes something drastic to make you step back and see what really is important.
Are you still in the same house as before? The one with the hair dye stained leather couch?
Quote from: thunderjet302;457891
Masters in library and information science. I waited a couple years before going back to save some $$$. Plus I was a bit tired of school. My employer helped to defer some of the cost of the degree, which helped my decision to go back.
That sounds like a degree where you didn't want to make any money ;) What kind of work do you do?
Quote from: V8Demon;457903
Ok.... I'll sum up 8 years....
Had my second daughter. My brother, who lives about 70 miles away, has never seen her. Im not sure he know she exists....what can I say, I tried to keep the communication going, but...
Bought a Dodge Nitro R/T.
Wife went back to work for NYC BOE.
Her 2000 Cougar bit the dust.
Bought a 2012 Focus to replace it.
Got bit by 135 lb Rottweiler at work and was forced to put it down. My hand still cramps in about 2 minutes when writing.
Sent the wife and kids to Hawaii and couldn't go due to not being able to get off from work for it.
Did a shiznit ton of work to the Cougar and Mustang, almost all of which is documented here.
Turned 40.
Quit smoking. I think this time for good. Had a 3 year stint once before. This one feels more promising though. Been 4 months.
shag you're old. When did that happen?
Don't be a quitter, quitters are losers! :mullet:
Quote from: MexCougar;457955
Nice to hear that everyone its still doing fairly well. This is still the only forum i came back every now an then. It looks like some of those old school meetings.
Never read an entire post from that Renzo guy, only knew it was a PITA. It was like our old friend 351Bird (Ben) or something ?
If you're talking about who I think you are, he is still quite long winded on facebook. Great guy, but difficult to follow sometimes.
Quote from: Haystack;457959
I dont often post personal stuff here, maybe I should actually say whats been going on with me. Might shed a bit of light on my moods and things for the past few years.
Me and the wife split hust before my second son was born. Been just over five years now. My ex had an obsession with shoppping and dug herself about $20k in credit card debt without my knowledge. I got sent 2500 miles from home for work in Pittsburgh and came home to an empty house with an eviction notice on the door.
I haven't spoken to my ex since then. She told her parent's I beat her up and ran up all the credit cards while I was gone, the re mortgaged their house to pay them off and helped her to file protective order against me. I am not a violent person and actually came from an abusive home. My mother abused prescription drugs, went crazy and left when I was 14 years old. I feel very strongly about violence and have never hurt anyone because of it.
Long story short, my ex wouldnt let me see my kids at all after she left, and I spent 3 years dealing with all the court stuff. Hired a lawyer which cost me $7k and finally settled outside of court for state minimums.
I was in a very, very dark place for about two years. While I was doing construction, I was a forman in charge of as many as 50 people and was always working after my ex left. I dug myself into work and just shut down emotionally while I couldnt see my kids. I kept getting migraines that would last for days straight. I got really sick and lost a ton of weight. I am 6'5, I went from 240lbs down to 157lbs during that time.
Once my divorce got finallized and I was able to see my kids again, I started to get much better and I am in a much better place now. I moved back in with my dad and things started to look up. Ive given up on construction at least for now, and am just trying to enjoy life with my kids whenever I can. Right now I am working part time delivering pizza because it's easy money and one of the few jobs I can easily work now that we live about 50 miles from any major cities. Financially I crippled due to a low income after years of making okay money. When I settled outside of court I got saddled with a ton of bills and past due child support putting me somewhere around $16k in debt which Ive slowly paid down to about $12k.
I will catch up on it, and I am probably going to go to college and just take some general classes once I am all caught up. I finally got my ged in november 2014 after my oldest started asking me about my school grades and I had to tell him that I dropped out of school and never finished.
Next month I start a new local job for okay money working 3 12hr days a week. The plan is to keep dominos part time and use the entire income of my second job to pay everything off.
Overall, this forum has helped me get through a ton of things. I feel more like this place is family. Even though ive never met anyone from the forum, ive spent a ton of time here since I was 16 and got my first cougar. I turn 30 next year and am looking forwards to a new and better life.
You've been through some tough times, but I'm glad to see things are getting back on track. The sad thing is that you're not the only person I've heard similar stories like this from. It's amazing how many people our age go through these exact situations. The silver lining is that you're young enough to bounce back and bounce back.
I can echo what you say about this place being family. No matter how long I'm away form the forum, this place, and the people here are always a huge part of my life. I'll never forget the people here, and I never could forget them. My career is what it is because of coming on here and learning.
Quote from: ThunderbirdSport302;457973
Anyway, I didn't mean this to come off as a pity me post, believe me, I've had enough pity and I ain't wanting more. Just be glad I made it through. Life is good. Go live it.
Certainly not a pity post. You sir, are a prime example of how life can be turned around. You should be proud to tell your story, and show how different you are from the home you grew up in.
I grew up in households full of drinking, smoking and partying. No one in my family who I had direct contact with had any sort of success and had problems with addiction. While it wasn't an abusive atmosphere, it wasn't an environment which encouraged me to do better things with my life. My family never worked for better things, they just worked for status quo. I couldn't live like that. I don't smoke, and super seldom drink. I locked myself into a good career and am now trying to learn how to financially secure my future.
We don't always mimic our surroundings from our upbringing, and you're a prime example of that.
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Post by: jcassity on November 20, 2016, 11:46:38 AM
Quote from: MexCougar;457955
Never read an entire post from that Renzo guy, ?
its like he was erased. i was building a list of his projects in my diy link because he had a lot of good pictures to mods
all thats gone now. i was gonna call it "the renzo files" (like the Rockford Files) then he got erased. kinda urks me because there was a ton of things like the IAC mod that seemed good and the FPR mod making any of our traditional vac operated ones full adjustable. thats all gone now. he doesnt answer his phone either. ive spoke to him several times and hes exactly the same as you'd expect, sota blunt and overbearing. I didnt care too much about that though, i can handle Type A people cause im one of them.
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Post by: Haystack on November 20, 2016, 03:49:27 PM
Renzo deleted every post he made here when he left. He actually did it 2 or 3 separate times. I didnt think he was a bad guy and was definitely knowledgeable, but even if you were agreeing with him he would nit pick or get so technical the entire point of the conversation or topic was almost always lost.
Ive worked with a few guys like him. Not the easiest to get along with, and usually sour after being used and abused throughout life, usually personally and professionally. I really feel if most of my conversations with renzo were in person we would end up friends, eventually.
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Post by: EricCoolCats on November 21, 2016, 10:00:49 AM
Quote from: Tbird232ci
It really is a harsh reality. It's really sobering. We spend so much time wrapped up in the grind that it takes something drastic to make you step back and see what really is important.
Yeah, I learned to make time and the cars suffer but so what. They'll be around longer.
Quote from: Tbird232ci
Are you still in the same house as before? The one with the hair dye stained leather couch?
LOL Yeah, same place. The dye came out with no issues. ;)
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Post by: thunderjet302 on November 21, 2016, 03:14:12 PM
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That sounds like a degree where you didn't want to make any money ;) What kind of work do you do?
Well it's not a degree I recommend getting unless you have some sort of job/career path lined up, like I did. Currently I manage a public library building and supervise 10 people. Let's just say it's civil service and pays well enough ;).
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Post by: Tbird232ci on November 22, 2016, 03:43:48 PM
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LOL Yeah, same place. The dye came out with no issues. ;)
It's amazing what small details come to mind ;)
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Well it's not a degree I recommend getting unless you have some sort of job/career path lined up, like I did. Currently I manage a public library building and supervise 10 people. Let's just say it's civil service and pays well enough ;).
That's actually really fortunate. I have a handful of friends with liberal arts degrees and have absolutely no career options.
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Post by: thunderjet302 on November 22, 2016, 05:30:30 PM
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That's actually really fortunate. I have a handful of friends with liberal arts degrees and have absolutely no career options.
Oh I know. I don't look the gift horse in the mouth....
I only got the degree because of employer assistance/career path made it worth the time/money. Having a BS in management helps as well. I know several people I went to graduate school with who don't have steady jobs in the field 4 years later. I was shocked at the amount of people in my classes who didn't have something lined up for when the finished school. In this field it's almost a must.
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Post by: ZondaC12 on November 23, 2016, 11:23:42 AM
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I was the THIRD person he bit within a month..... The one before me was an elderly woman whom he put in the hospital for weeks..... It wasn't my first rodeo with him.
To find out how often it happens you could always contact your local SPCA. Most munilities require them to be notified in such instances.
Just wondering really. Something that will unfortunately happen from time to time, but clearly not the norm. They're always great to see, I'm a total sucker for shepherds :)
Beau, you're right you definitely put on a good show. You hinted at not being exactly thrilled with things sometimes. Glad that you recovered. A former co-worker told me that the best things in life aren't things. And I'm finding that myself.
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Post by: CougarSE on November 27, 2016, 10:00:46 PM
Boo!
To summarize my last 8 years, the girl you met when we last saw each other I married. Gumby was there ;) We now have two kids, a 2 1/2 year old and a 1 month old. Bought a house, do some farming when we have time. Life has been good.
I still have my 88, I have tried to sell it a couple of times. The buyer either fell through or people had little interest. It has sat for years getting started every couple months suffering from a low fuel pressure issue. I actually dropped the tank and fixed it this week, it rekindled an interest in the car now that it runs great again. I even washed it! That's why I'm here and how I even saw your thread.
I notice its a bit different around here, I think people have moved on to different projects. I personally have gone down the diesel truck route but mostly due to needing them on the farm. As we get older and the pay increases we can afford the dream cars and move on from the foxes that only filled the void. My money gets spent on farm equipment though :hick:
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Post by: Chuck W on November 28, 2016, 12:22:25 PM
I'm still here, but don't post a whole lot. Life is good, but busy.
Still have the '83 and have plans to get some work done on it (Been hard to get too motivated to get too deep into stuff, as I don't like leaving things apart sitting outside). Got married (again) back in March and we are closing on another house in a week. More room for the car projects and finally a spot to get the TBird back into an indoor home.
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Post by: thunderjet302 on November 28, 2016, 03:02:39 PM
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Boo! As we get older and the pay increases we can afford the dream cars and move on from the foxes that only filled the void.
I don't know. I've had the same Fox for 14 years, even with pay increases. I have no plans to get rid of it any time soon ;)
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Post by: custompunk on November 29, 2016, 05:24:43 PM
I am looking to find the right home for my fox. It's in the ad section of this website. Would make a good project as ground effects are there. Window dew wipes need replaced and front window seal. A little front end work and she'll be golden. Some surface rust but not terrible. I'd like her to be indoors this winter. I will bring it home Saturday to columbus ohio. Askin 2000 cause of HCI, 5 speed, exhaust, A9L computer, fuel injected, mass air, 24 lb injectors. No interior needs complete recover. All parts are there. chipped!!!!!!111!!!!!!!!!!!eleven!!
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Post by: Tbird232ci on December 05, 2016, 02:01:12 AM
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Boo!
To summarize my last 8 years, the girl you met when we last saw each other I married. Gumby was there ;) We now have two kids, a 2 1/2 year old and a 1 month old. Bought a house, do some farming when we have time. Life has been good.
I still have my 88, I have tried to sell it a couple of times. The buyer either fell through or people had little interest. It has sat for years getting started every couple months suffering from a low fuel pressure issue. I actually dropped the tank and fixed it this week, it rekindled an interest in the car now that it runs great again. I even washed it! That's why I'm here and how I even saw your thread.
I notice its a bit different around here, I think people have moved on to different projects. I personally have gone down the diesel truck route but mostly due to needing them on the farm. As we get older and the pay increases we can afford the dream cars and move on from the foxes that only filled the void. My money gets spent on farm equipment though :hick:
At least you didn't marry the stripper :D
How much property do you have that you're farming? What are you growing?
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I'm still here, but don't post a whole lot. Life is good, but busy.
Still have the '83 and have plans to get some work done on it (Been hard to get too motivated to get too deep into stuff, as I don't like leaving things apart sitting outside). Got married (again) back in March and we are closing on another house in a week. More room for the car projects and finally a spot to get the TBird back into an indoor home.
Man, I didn't know you were married before. Shows how well I paid attention.
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I don't know. I've had the same Fox for 14 years, even with pay increases. I have no plans to get rid of it any time soon ;)
Show off.
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Post by: V8Demon on December 05, 2016, 04:16:40 AM
Pssshhh. Only 14 years, Lou?
New year's day will be the Nineteenth anniversary of me owning mine.
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Post by: thunderjet302 on December 05, 2016, 05:11:45 PM
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Pssshhh. Only 14 years, Lou?
New year's day will be the Nineteenth anniversary of me owning mine.
I couldn't even legally drive 19 years ago....
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Post by: Chuck W on December 05, 2016, 11:20:20 PM
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Man, I didn't know you were married before. Shows how well I paid attention.
This is actually #3. ;)
The last one was done over 10 years ago, so...
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Post by: vinnietbird on December 06, 2016, 07:33:34 AM
My Bird is a keeper. No question about it. I still peck away at it when I can.
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Post by: Lodemia on December 06, 2016, 08:00:07 AM
Wow, what an amazing set of stories. Well here goes. I don't usually post any personal stuff on the internet. I got burned back in 1998 (seriously) and it was bad enough that it scarred my for nearly 20 years. I still don't have a facebook account.
I had a couple T-Birds growing up, but "my car" was an '84 that I spent over a year on when I was 15 years old. I loved that car, until I was the victim of a hit and run, and had to tear it apart and rebuild it. In the end, I was dirt poor and I had already spent my money fixing it once, so I wasn't able to do it right, and it became a nuisance for me. Fast forward some 20 years, and I was diagnosed with cancer and given an 80% chance of recurrence. The particular type of cancer that I had is aggressive and doesn't respond to chemo or radiation, only removal. I avoided all the quality of life issues that everyone else has when they are diagnosed, but on the other hand, we have to watch it like a hawk, and I get regular PET scans. When it comes on, it comes on like a storm, and the usual remedy is removing lymph nodes so that it doesn't spread. Fortunately for me, I've been cancer free since the initial diagnosis, and if I can make it another 4 years, I will be a normal person, statistically speaking.
With this life event, I decided I wanted to take some time and teach my kids things that I know. I am a self-proclaimed workaholoc. We were very poor growing up, and I decided that I never wanted to live that way again, so I have always put work above most things in life. I decided to get back into cars, and make time to teach my kids, because it was something that I really enjoyed doing. My son and I were building a pro-touring 1968 buick skylark convertible for him to drive, and he turns to me and says, "wouldn't this be cool if it were a mustang?" I was active on the buick forums, so I posted a for sale ad and had it all gone in two weeks. I decided to instead focus on my own passion, which was building a fox thunderbird "the right way" - something I could never afford in my youth, and let me son fend for himself ;-)
I'm 42 years old, and my fox t-bird journey you could categorize as the opposite of the 7 stages of grief: From euphoria leading back to denial. I found a great, low mileage car, and proceeded to work on it. In the mean time, parts became more scarce, so as I saw parts cars come up, I just bought them. I literally have 5 cars now (2x88, 1x87, and 2x86), and only two in drivable condition. My son is driving one of the '86s right now, but he's getting tired of working on it, and is looking for something else.
For me, I have simply run out of time. I have two boys in driving age, and a girl right behind them. I find that I'm spending a lot of time working on their stuff, and absolutely zero time to work on my own. I want to teach my kids the value of hard work, so I made a deal with each of them. I would pay half for whatever car they wanted to buy. Period. Literally anything that they wanted as their first car, I would pay half of the money for, but they had to earn the other half. It's been an interesting social experiment with my oldest setting really high goals, but not attaining them (he wanted a new Ferrari, but ended up with a 1986 t-bird), and my middle son diligently saving and not spending everything he saved. Instead, he bought a very nice 2006 Lincoln LS with heated and cooled seats. As a Dad, it's very rewarding teaching your kids to make decisions, and then to teach them to deal with the consequences of those decisions. I have to remind my oldest who "settled for what he could afford" that my offer to pay half was a one-time thing :flame:
When you have teenagers, things get really busy. We're a swimming family, and my kids swim both the winter season and summer season for the school, but then the spring and the fall, they swim on a select team for a local college, which means year-round swim practice, swim meets, etc. In addition, I am an assistant scoutmaster with the boy scouts.
Work-wise, things are insane. I am an executive in the software industry. As part of my cancer-induced life reflection, I decided I didn't want to finish my days on this earth working for the maniac that I was working for, so I switched companies. But that hasn't made things any less stressful. I started with the new firm in order to launch a product line, and we grew that product literally from zero to $2B in revenue with 4500 companies in 5 short years. I'm now managing three lines of business, and in the last year, I have launched another business line, and I am working with a startup division within the company to launch yet another new line of solutions. The thing about this industry is there's never a shortage of ideas and initiatives and nothing lasts long-term. If you sit still, someone will capitalize on that, and you'll get left behind quickly. Because of this and my high risk tolerance, I've been extremely fortunate and have done well financially. I don't have any complaints, except that it has required 12-14 hour days and a lot of weekend work. It's getting more intense lately as well, and the numbers are much higher. 20% growth on $1M is much different than 20% growth on $2B.
Over the summer, we did really well in the market, and I got within 20% of my "retirement number" and my wife and I started reflecting on what's next in life. We thought about moving, but decided that we didn't want to take all of our stuff with us - we have too much. As we reflected on what's really important, and what we want to take with us, there are a few heirloom items, a bunch of pictures and memories, but the rest we really didn't have a purpose for, and that includes my thunderbird obsession. We decided that we're going to keep status quo until the kids are out of high school, but once that happens, we're going to move somewhere else. We still don't know where, but it will be somewhere with much milder winters.
Which bring me to the long-winded point of this post. Part of all this reflection made me realize that we didn't need to wait 5 years to purge everything, we can start working on it now. When the time is right, we can walk away from our house, leave the keys in the door, and start a new life somewhere else. I know it sounds crazy - my sister tells me all the time - and that's probably not what will happen, but the goal is to get to the point that we could realistically do that when the time comes.
So that's why I posted the "interest" thread in the for sale section. I really do enjoy these cars, and it has been fun amassing the collection that I have, but it doesn't fit my 5 year plan, so it needs to go.
FWIW, I have always felt like a member of this family. It's part of my daily ritual to read this forum after I work out. It brings a normalcy to my crazy days!
Geoff
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Post by: jcassity on December 06, 2016, 09:15:03 AM
i am totally still into these cars, birds & cougs. I guess im an odd ball. I cannot imagine what the eventual day looks like when i can no longer drive one. I feel just as ambitious and energetic about the preservation aspect as well. I was 15 playing basketball in my driveway when i was finally united with the commercials i saw about that car the cougar........ as it drove by i saw the full side profile and at that moment i decided i will have one. No one could buy me a car or get me a college education as we were a family of very humble means. I come home from bootcamp and my father and i go out and at the first stop, the first car lot, there was the 84 coug with a v6. 3200$ cash and i drove home in it,, and down to avionics A school in memphis tn.
anyone who knows me knows i seem to wear the same car. i have had 4, my first 84 total loss at the intersection where circuit city once operated in va beach. The second 84 my rental apt tree fell on it.. then i re-enlisted and cashed in my leave days and bought my white 87... its being restored now for my youngest son although i am dealing some lonely time by myself nearly every available day... SON where art thou!,, this hurts me and i hope he snaps out of it. skype and IoT seem to be more interesting for him yet he's my passion as well, my son and i am working hard to preseve and old machine he can be proud to own. I love these old cars and for the sake of conversation, thier simplicity and ease to remediate and fix with a modern solution if needed when no part is available. I worry about the tone lately around here and one day i had a bad feeling that our community of this board will yeild and error 404 when i jump on to find information.... I have this feeling everyday now since i have started paying close attention. to anyone with that feeling of moving on, keep one of your fox cars, its a part of who you are, these cars have personalities and wishes just like you to survive, be noticed and be liked. If they could only for a brief moment be gifted with the opportunity to speak words, they would all tell us they also do not want to die.
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Post by: Thunder Chicken on December 06, 2016, 11:28:27 AM
Scott, the board is paid for through at least 2018, so you don't have anything to fear. I have been vaguely thinking about passing the torch to somebody else, but rest assured whoever took it over would be somebody we know, who has been a longstanding member, and who we could trust (I have not even thought about anybody in particular, but these would be the conditions). This board is relatively low maintenance and fairly cheap to keep running, so no matter what, it won't be disappearing. Nor will it ever be plastered with ads as a lot of other boards have become. It was never meant to be a source of income.
Although I don't own one anymore I still love the cars, and I love the community. Some day I will own another one, when I have time to dedicate to a project car (and also when I can find the one I want).
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Post by: Beau on December 12, 2016, 04:21:35 PM
I'm looking for a clean, damage free 5.0 'Bird...gotta be an '87 or '88, though I wouldn't entirely rule out an '85 or 86, either.
It's time to get back into a FoxBird. The Mustang is a fun thing, but it's missing something....style.
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Post by: Lodemia on December 12, 2016, 04:47:04 PM
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I'm looking for a clean, damage free 5.0 'Bird...gotta be an '87 or '88, though I wouldn't entirely rule out an '85 or 86, either.
It's time to get back into a FoxBird. The Mustang is a fun thing, but it's missing something....style.
Hit me up - I'm in IL and need to get out of the Fox Bird business.
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Post by: grutinator on December 12, 2016, 09:56:01 PM
whats up Shawn? good to see you back! A lot has changed in the last few years. I got married and bought a house, I'm up in westminster now. mostly finished with the sport (you know they're never really done). Can't remember if I was still working on cars last time we talked but I've been doing commercial HVAC for a few years now. I still swing by here every once in a while. Good to hear that things are alright with you. You still in MD?
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Post by: CougarGal on December 13, 2016, 09:09:49 AM
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i am totally still into these cars, birds & cougs. I guess im an odd ball. I cannot imagine what the eventual day looks like when i can no longer drive one. I feel just as ambitious and energetic about the preservation aspect as well. I was 15 playing basketball in my driveway when i was finally united with the commercials i saw about that car the cougar........ as it drove by i saw the full side profile and at that moment i decided i will have one. No one could buy me a car or get me a college education as we were a family of very humble means. I come home from bootcamp and my father and i go out and at the first stop, the first car lot, there was the 84 coug with a v6. 3200$ cash and i drove home in it,, and down to avionics A school in memphis tn.
anyone who knows me knows i seem to wear the same car. i have had 4, my first 84 total loss at the intersection where circuit city once operated in va beach. The second 84 my rental apt tree fell on it.. then i re-enlisted and cashed in my leave days and bought my white 87... its being restored now for my youngest son although i am dealing some lonely time by myself nearly every available day... SON where art thou!,, this hurts me and i hope he snaps out of it. skype and IoT seem to be more interesting for him yet he's my passion as well, my son and i am working hard to preseve and old machine he can be proud to own. I love these old cars and for the sake of conversation, thier simplicity and ease to remediate and fix with a modern solution if needed when no part is available. I worry about the tone lately around here and one day i had a bad feeling that our community of this board will yeild and error 404 when i jump on to find information.... I have this feeling everyday now since i have started paying close attention. to anyone with that feeling of moving on, keep one of your fox cars, its a part of who you are, these cars have personalities and wishes just like you to survive, be noticed and be liked. If they could only for a brief moment be gifted with the opportunity to speak words, they would all tell us they also do not want to die.
What a lovely sentiment!! I've had my lady for 22 years now and have no plans to see her go to the car graveyard (heat or not)!!! Too many wonderful memories wrapped up in trips made and projects done and to be done.
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Post by: ZondaC12 on December 14, 2016, 12:12:35 AM
Every time I go to do some sort of overhaul on one....I end up finding another deal I just caaaaaaaan't pass up, because, you know, otherwise you're basically ripping yourself off by...not..spending money?? Anyway there are just so few cars I look at the same way I look at my black ROH-ZS'd wheel'd tinted black XR7. And the 20th is a little more "pedestrian", in comparison, but in the right light it's shagy as hell too. I love the 60s/early 70s official "Muscle Car" era too, but I also love factory EFI and overdrive. As well as the other tech these have. Life IS change, but right now I can't see myself ever ceasing to enjoy these cars. There are too many pros and not enough cons!!
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Post by: Tbird232ci on December 17, 2016, 06:01:43 AM
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whats up Shawn? good to see you back! A lot has changed in the last few years. I got married and bought a house, I'm up in westminster now. mostly finished with the sport (you know they're never really done). Can't remember if I was still working on cars last time we talked but I've been doing commercial HVAC for a few years now. I still swing by here every once in a while. Good to hear that things are alright with you. You still in MD?
I saw you bought a house and all on facebook. You beat me to it by a good bit. Last time we talked, you were working on cars, but I think I remember you talking about looking to get into HVAC. It's been a long time man. I'm still in MD. I'm down in Pasadena. A little bit of a hike from Westminister, but not too bad.
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Post by: Cougars 2 go on May 06, 2017, 10:22:55 AM