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Title: Very bad news today....
Post by: cougarman on April 14, 2011, 09:26:51 PM
My wife and I went to the doctor today and got some bad news. Her cancer is back, after 2 yrs. She has to see her surgeon to see if he can operate, if not she will need to have more chemo and radiation. Not the news I was hoping to get. Why does bad things happen to good people.  :punchballs::punchballs:
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Post by: Loaded87IROC on April 14, 2011, 09:31:02 PM
Real sorry to hear that.  I hope the doc gives good news.
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Post by: hypostang on April 14, 2011, 09:49:41 PM
Sorry To hear that Herb , I hope it works out well
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Post by: dragon574444 on April 14, 2011, 09:52:03 PM
Sorry to hear that, I hope everything turns out okay.
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Post by: 88CougarGT on April 14, 2011, 09:55:52 PM
Bummer...  Let us know if theres anyway we can help.
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Post by: 20thanniver-ls on April 14, 2011, 09:59:34 PM
That's horrible news bud. Hope all turns out well.
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Post by: thewestie on April 14, 2011, 10:05:57 PM
She will be in my prayers
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Post by: HAVI on April 14, 2011, 10:28:12 PM
Prayin'!
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Post by: daminc on April 14, 2011, 10:30:41 PM
Sorry to hear that Herb, I will return the prayers you sent us earlier this month...
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Post by: Beau on April 15, 2011, 02:38:05 AM
You both are definitely in our minds and prayers here. Cancer is a bitch..I'd give everything materiel I've ever had to have again all that it's cost me and my family....I'll just extend that wish to your guys too. Hopin' nothing but good for you both.
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Post by: vinnietbird on April 15, 2011, 06:48:36 AM
Give her our best wishes and tell her she has a crowd praying for her. Take it one day at a time.
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Post by: mercury-man on April 15, 2011, 06:55:05 AM
Herb & Tammy , Our prayers are with you guys.


Dan & Paula
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Post by: cougarman on April 15, 2011, 07:24:03 AM
Thanks everyone, you guys are the best!!!:bowdown: We are not giving up that's for sure. :D
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Post by: 88turbo on April 15, 2011, 12:01:15 PM
Herb, we will be praying for you both as well.  If you can beat it once you can beat it again right?
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Post by: cougarman on April 15, 2011, 01:11:12 PM
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Herb, we will be praying for you both as well.  If you can beat it once you can beat it again right?


That's what on betting on!! :D
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Post by: ivygreen on April 15, 2011, 01:23:00 PM
Sorry to hear it, Herb.  Remind her that attitude is everything.  If she thinks she can beat it, she can.  You are in our prayers.
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Post by: cougarman on April 15, 2011, 01:32:46 PM
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Sorry to hear it, Herb.  Remind her that attitude is everything.  If she thinks she can beat it, she can.  You are in our prayers.


Thanks, she has a wonderful "nothing can hold me down" attitude. This song says it all.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4PvkKaeGasc&feature=related  :bowdown:
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Post by: 5.0 tbird on April 15, 2011, 02:57:55 PM
F**k cancer. Let her know we're all pulling for her.
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Post by: Kitz Kat on April 15, 2011, 03:55:01 PM
Life is not fair. Hope everything works out for you both.
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Post by: Crash225 on April 16, 2011, 10:26:31 PM
Cancer has caused a lot of pain for my family too. I sincerely wish you both the best.
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Post by: fluke on April 16, 2011, 10:36:00 PM
That's rough. :( Best wishes.. I hope everything turns out okay.
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Post by: cougarman on April 17, 2011, 05:19:15 AM
Thanks.
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Post by: cougarman on April 30, 2011, 09:02:46 PM
Well small update, wife is scheduled for surgery May 11. The surgeon is gonna try to get the tumor out.
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Post by: vinnietbird on April 30, 2011, 09:10:12 PM
Nothin' but love for her. I'll continue to keep her on the prayer list. Hang in there you two.
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Post by: daminc on April 30, 2011, 10:46:50 PM
You both will be in our thoughts Herb
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Post by: cougarman on May 01, 2011, 07:56:25 AM
Thank you all.
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Post by: ShowBoy on May 03, 2011, 09:19:11 PM
Prayers to you.
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Post by: cougarman on May 04, 2011, 07:33:51 AM
Thanks.
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Post by: flylear45 on May 08, 2011, 08:34:20 AM
My Mom beat cancer 10 years ago. I believe your wife will too. Best wishes for a speedy recovery from the surgery.
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Post by: cougarman on May 08, 2011, 08:42:52 AM
Thanks, that's what we're hoping for. :D
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Post by: Beau on May 08, 2011, 12:39:50 PM
Here's hope and prayer that success is an understatement for you both :)
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on May 09, 2011, 08:33:54 AM
Sorry to hear of this. I hope the surgury goes well and they can get it all. Just keep your faith.
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Post by: lakenheath24 on May 09, 2011, 04:11:53 PM
I hate that shiznit.  I hope it goes well.
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Post by: Scott D on May 09, 2011, 04:28:50 PM
Prayers out, dude!
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Post by: cougarman on May 10, 2011, 02:35:32 AM
Thanks all.
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Post by: cougarman on May 11, 2011, 02:45:48 PM
Well wife went into surgery around 8am, it's now 2:45 pm and she is still there :(
Doc came out a few minutes ago, and talked tom us about how the tumor is a little more involved than he first thought. VERY stressful day.
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Post by: hypostang on May 11, 2011, 05:22:24 PM
Y'all are staying in my thoughts Herb
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Post by: cougarman on May 11, 2011, 08:20:14 PM
Surgery complete finally 8:12pm. Waiting for them to let us back in to see her.:bowdown::bowdown:
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Post by: cougarman on May 14, 2011, 08:10:04 AM
My remarkable wife!!
This is a story of the most remarkable woman I've ever known, my wonderful wife Tammy. As many of you know she went into surgery last Wed. for recurrent pancreatic cancer. The surgery was supposed to take around 6 hrs. but ended up almost 13 hrs. :( What seemed like a very small tumor going in, turned into major reconstruction when the doc got in there. The surgeon who is the most wonderful person one could ever meet, also the most skilled pancreatic surgeon around, ended up having one of the longest days he has had. He had to call in a couple of his associates to work their magic on a couple spots. He called in a vascular surgeon to remove and/or repair several blood vessels that the tumor had surrounded. Her called in a colon specialist to remove and/or repair her colon where the tumor had invaded. This skilled team worked endlessly to try to save as much as they could, while making sure they got all the cancer out. So in the end, Tammy ended up losing her left kidney, 2/3rds of her colon, another small piece of her pancreas and several veins and arteries . When she finally made it to her room, actually she looked very good for what had just happened. Tammy still had her ventilator tube in, and was given a paralytic to keep her still while she rested. All her vitals were excellent. The next morning when she begin to wake up, it was astounding. Tammy was alert and trying to talk. After the docs and nurses administered a few breathing tests, they removed her breathing tube, and other than being a little se from the tube, she was very good. Almost seemed like she hadn't just been through 13 hrs. of abdominal surgery. She continued to improve that day at a very quick pace, all the med staff were amazed. Later that day Tammy was even able to get out of bed, and we wheeled her down to the family waiting room, so she could hang out with everyone. Later that evening they moved her out of surgical intensive care into the surgical step down unit. They were saying she was doing too good to be in icu. :) The last two days Tammy has been up walking around the step down unit, going "around the block" as we call it..lol. All her vitals are good and improving, she is awake and alert. It is simply amazing how well she is doing, you would never believe what all she went through only a few days before. Tammy is a very remarkable woman, truly one of a kind and I love her very much. I am truly blessed to not only have her as my best friend, but my wife as well. Here's to you hon, you are truly an amazing woman. All the best to you for continued recovery, and a long and happy life. All my love Tammy.
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Post by: 20thanniver-ls on May 14, 2011, 09:32:11 AM
That's great news! She's a tough tough woman. Glad she pulled through.
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Post by: cougarman on May 14, 2011, 12:15:51 PM
Thanks.
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Post by: hypostang on May 14, 2011, 12:16:49 PM
Excellent progress , I'm very happy for Y'all
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Post by: 5.0 tbird on May 14, 2011, 01:47:40 PM
That's great news! It sounds like she's on her way to a speedy recovery.
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Post by: daminc on May 14, 2011, 02:40:24 PM
Awesome news..... tell her to just take it easy...no hurry to get back to the routine...She has someone to take care of her....and spoil her...lol
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on May 14, 2011, 03:48:53 PM
That's fantastic!!! So good to hear!! I'm happy for you both!!
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Post by: Kitz Kat on May 15, 2011, 12:36:14 PM
Great news!
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Post by: vinnietbird on May 15, 2011, 05:39:05 PM
congrats to the wife . Glad to hear she's doing well now. Do you think any of that surgery will leave much of a scar?LOL. Had to find some humor. Tell her we're proud for her.....and you.
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Post by: cougarman on May 15, 2011, 08:42:53 PM
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congrats to the wife . Glad to hear she's doing well now. Do you think any of that surgery will leave much of a scar?LOL. Had to find some humor. Tell her we're proud for her.....and you.


Thanks, she has what the doc calls a "rooftop" scar across her abdomen...lol.      " ^ "
Left side is from the first surgery, and the right is new. :D
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Post by: vinnietbird on May 15, 2011, 09:20:48 PM
Battle scar !!!! Now she feel all "Zena Princess Warrior". LOL. Celebrate well when she gets really mobile.
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Post by: dragon574444 on May 15, 2011, 09:22:34 PM
Wow, congrats. I'm glad everything turned out okay.
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Post by: RareBreed 5.0 on May 15, 2011, 09:51:53 PM
Nothing but love, good luck and have a happy and speedy recovery!